Connect Week 4


A Healthy Prayer Life Will Lead To A Deeper Relationship With Jesus.

Prepare Ahead Of Time:

Connect Week PowerPoint, Student Testimony, A couple bags of Marshmallows (large, not mini marshmallows), Minimum of two small prizes.


Luke 11:1, John 14:13, 2 Corinthians 1:20

Countdown Video* (5mins):

Play countdown video found at


Welcome (2mins)

Say: Welcome to Connect Week! We are excited to talk about how to connect to our churches, connect to the Lord and connect with our friends here at First Priority! Who got a chance to go to church this week? ….. that’s great!


Say: Break into pairs, today we are going to play Marshmallow Toss! Choose a partner and line up across from each other.

Set up two lines using whatever objects you have. Each play should stand behind their line. They should be able to toss a marshmallow fairly accurately from one line to the other.

Say: When I say go begin tossing marshmallows into your partners mouth. When I yell switch you will change roles and the thrower will become the receiver. The team who catches the most marshmallows in their mouth wins! Ready. Set. Go!

If you have multiple prizes you can play a couple of rounds as time permits.

Connect To God (7mins)

As we try to grow closer to Jesus, we spend Time Alone with God, or TAG Time. An important element of TAG Time is prayer! A healthy prayer life will lead to a deeper relationship with Jesus.  Many people struggle to pray. We’re easily distracted when praying alone or embarrassed when praying out-loud. If you find yourself easily discouraged, take heart to know that even Jesus’ closest followers needed help in this area:

“As he (Jesus) finished (praying), one of his disciples came to him and said, “Lord, teach us to pray” -Luke 11:1

If Jesus’ inner circle needed some help in this area, how much more do we?! Jesus taught them a simple way to pray. First Jesus taught that we should connect with God in a relational way when we pray, calling Him Father. Jesus also taught us to worship God in our prayers, to pray that God’s priorities would happen in our lives, and that we should pray that we would depend on Him for everything. We should also ask God to check our hearts and motives making sure we  have the right heart towards others, and that God would defend us from the enemy.

When we pray these things it help us grow closer to God, and it enables us to enjoy His presence. A healthy prayer life will lead to a deeper relationship with Jesus.

Have you ever noticed how most Christian prayers end? “We pray these things, in Jesus’ name, Amen”? Wonder where that tradition comes from? In John’s Gospel, Jesus tells us often to pray in His name.

“You can ask for anything in my name, and I will do it, so that the Son can bring glory to the Father. Yes, ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it!” -John 14:13

Whenever we acknowledge Jesus when we pray we’re agreeing that:

“…through Christ, our “Amen” (which means “Yes”) ascends to God for his glory.” -2 Corinthians 1:20

Reading the Bible is how God communicate to us. Prayer is how we communicate with Him. One way conversations are boring! Make sure that your TAG Time includes prayer because a healthy prayer life will lead to a deeper relationship with Jesus!

Say: What are some reasons why Christians struggle to pray regularly?

Allow students to answer 

Say: How often would you say you text a friend per day? …. Why do we often have time for that but not to communicate with God?

Allow students to answer  

New Believer Moment(3mins)

Say: Is there anyone here today that made a decision for the first time to follow Jesus last week at Proclaim Week? If you would like to share about why you made that decision we would love to hear from you today! But, we understand if that’s scary and you don’t want to stand up here and share yet.

Give a moment for new believers to share if they are willing

Say: If you made a decision to follow Jesus and you didn’t get a chance to share, or didn’t want to quite yet, make sure you see a student leader after club today. Also, make sure you get a First Priority Bible!

Have student leaders identify themselves 

Connect To Church Activity (8mins)

Say: Today –STUDENT NAME- is going to share with us about their church, why they are involved weekly, and how they serve the Lord at their local church.

Have a student leader answer these questions:

  1. What church do you go to? How are you involved?

Encourage the student to explain why being connected to a local church is such a big part of their life. 

  1. Why is prayer an important part of your life?
  2. What advice would you give to a fellow student who is struggling to pray?

Connect To Club(5mins)

Say: It’s important to keep coming back to club throughout the school year, if you are going to be part of the club this year, please fill out a membership form to become an official member of the First Priority Club here at – SCHOOL NAME- we are so excited to welcome anyone of you to be a member! If your not sure you want to be a member yet that’s ok too! Just keep coming and enjoying these times with us!

Pass out membership cards to those students who want them

Say: We will now use our three-week planner to plan the next few weeks of club. You can have an opportunity to be part of the team by signing up to help!

Use the three week planner giving students opportunity to volunteer

In-Prayer Moment (2mins)

Say: Let’s take a couple minutes to break into small groups and pray for the friends on our prayer cards that they would know Jesus, get connected to our club and get involved in a church!

Give them a couple minutes to pray

Club Selfie (2mins)

Say: Let’s take a club selfie!

Get the whole group together and take a selfie. Post it to social media with the hashtag #FPClubSelfie

Announcements* (2mins)

Display announcement slides

Say: We have lots of different church options if you don’t have a home church check out the ones here on the screen. If you don’t see your church listed let me know. We will see you next week at Equip Week! We are excited to have you join us as we discuss the question of “What is Truth?” Be sure to be there… and feel free to invite some friends!                                              

Make any local club announcements